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The 5 Most Important Criteria For Career Happiness According To Skrud

This week marked the one-year anniversary of my first full time job after graduating. I gained some experience and learned a lot about the company, its people, processes and teams. But more than anything I’ve learned a lot about myself. This has hardly been a solitary journey, and in the past year I’ve discussed with many different colleagues, mentors, managers, supervisors and even executives — both inside my company and elsewhere. I’ve participated in community discussions about engaging “Generation Y” in the workplace. All these experiences have helped me to identify and articulate those things that I believe are essential to happiness in my own career.

1. Face-to-Face Collaboration

I want to work with people in person. This could mean brainstorming together, bouncing ideas and solutions off of each other, and helping each other learn. It could include gathering around a whiteboard, or even a pad of paper, or getting two or more people huddled around a computer monitor trying to solve some nasty little bug. Or pair programming. Two heads are better than one and communication is infinitely more efficient if you have two people sitting together side-by-side. Some things that take hours to explain over the phone, instant messaging or e-mail can take mere minutes to explain in person. You can save all this time and extra frustration by just pulling up a chair next to someone else.

2. Friends

I’d love to have coworkers whom I can relate to on a social and cultural level. I want coworkers whom I can be friends with. The advantages of working with friends are endless. Collaboration amongst people who know each other well and get along is so much more meaningful. The small distractions that friends provide at the workplace, such as sharing a clever comic or YouTube video, add some positive energy to the environment. Something so simple as having a friend to eat lunch with can make a world of difference in a day that might otherwise be spent in isolation. These relationships extend beyond the boundaries of the workplace and become real, meaningful friendships. Going to a bar after work for happy hour, catching a movie on Tuesday night or heading to the Just For Laughs festival together are all things that coworkers who are also friends with each other can do. In short, it makes sitting in an office more lively.

3. Challenge Me

My university career was spent learning, developing and honing my technical, social and communication skills. My internships and my first year out of school have given me some practical experience. In order to grow, learn and master these skills I need to challenge them. I would love to be working on tasks that are just beyond the reach of my abilities, forcing me to learn something new or apply my skills in new ways. Naturally, every job will have some tedious aspect to it, but a sufficient challenge can be a reward for sticking through the menial parts and make everything worth it. The trick is finding those occasional projects that make me say “This is why I love this job.”

4. Talk To Me

Just as I seek out technical challenges to practice my technical skills, I need a forum for improving my communication skills. Unlike the stereotypical “geek”, I’m an extrovert. I love to talk, socialize and explain. I welcome open discussions and sometimes I like to play devil’s advocate. I thought that the ability to communicate effectively was secondary to my technical skills but what I’ve learned over the past year is that communication is a skill that needs to be cultivated. I’ve also learned that I need to communicate as much as I need a technical challenge, if not more so. The main reason I come into the office everyday is because it’s less lonely than sitting in my apartment. I only exercise my option to “work from home” if I have an excessive backlog of laundry to do. (In other words, it’s better than showing up to work in my pyjamas because I’m out of clothes).

5. Lifestyle and Location

Like others of my generation, I work to live. Money and wealth are not my primary motivators. Life should be about living. At the end of the day, the most important thing is that I can confidently say “I love my life.” If that’s not happening, then I know I need to do some moving and shaking. When I was working in Ottawa, my job was pretty awesome. I regularly had technical challenges and was working with a team of ridiculously smart people. After a few months, however, I learned that I simply couldn’t live in Ottawa. I found that I was sacrificing my lifestyle for the sake of my job. No job could replace the friends, entertainment and culture that I had enjoyed throughout my time in Montreal. It seems obvious now, but it was a tough lesson. I learned that the city I live in has an immense impact on my happiness and well-being. I need to be able to do the things that I love doing, whether it’s attending the Fantasia Film Festival, Nuit Blanche, the Eureka Science Fair or simply hanging out with my beloved friends. The bottom line is that my job must enable me to live my life to the fullest, or better yet be a part of what makes my life worth living.

It’s taken me a full year, but I feel like I’ve finally been able to state with confidence what I want out of my career and where it fits in with the rest of my life. Now that I know what I’m looking for I’m in a much better position to find it. World, here I come.

  • http://smokinn.com Guillaume Theoret

    I think you forgot one: Meaningful contribution

    And by meaningful contribution I mean to both the company and society in general. When you’re working you want to know that what you’re doing matters. If you’re working a dead end job in a dead end product that either you don’t believe in or despise, your motivation and happiness are going to plummet.

  • http://www.geekflex.net Skrud

    You’re absolutely right, Guillaume. I may have dangerously assumed that something challenging would also be meaningful.

  • Sebastien Martin

    Great post Skrud. I agree with you on all five criteria. I can say that I experienced those while working on SONIA AUV at ETS. When you work in those conditions, you never count your worked hours.

  • Thien

    Another one would be: Appreciation

    As in if you bust your ass to get a project done, getting appreciation from upper management and signs of appreciation is always a good plus. Motivation and happiness will go down the drain if you bust your ass and nobody recognizes it.

  • http://spacebar.ca SPACEBAR

    As usual: brillant! Thanks for sharing this with us and keep up the good work :-)

  • http://fourfoil.com Reb

    Good job on the points! It’s what I look for when I go into the interview too (or at least try to spot as much as possible when at the place). They make me miss my old design studio but this one is alright.

    I think the working environment is important too. If it’s stale, it tends to be soulsucking, especially if you’re not allowed to decorate. It’s basically your second home since you’re there for hours a day. And I agree with Tien: appreciation is nice.

  • http://sekhmetdesign.thegeekcartel.com SekhmetDesign

    I don’t agree with your point #2: Friends. Why? Simply because I worked before with a bunch of friends, and while it was amazing all the stuff we could do together, it was also ugly when fights happened over a decision on who was going to do the stuff, who would pay for this, who would do this, and that…And let’s not forget, personal dramas could happen too. It would reflect in the workplace, and having to deal with a double-dose of drama at work AND with your friends outside of it…I had to deal with this situation before, and I promised myself to never engage in this type of work relationship again. Yes, it can be could to be on a friendly level with your coworkers, having people to exchange Youtube, talks, chat, exchange on books and social activities to do during the week-end…but sometimes it can get ugly outside of work too. I prefer a separation between work and personal life. You need a place outside of work to vent all the negative emotions that can sometime happen ;) Bt otherwise, I agree with the rest of the post. We don’t live to work, we work to pay for our life outside of work!

  • http://sekhmetdesign.thegeekcartel.com SekhmetDesign

    Typo error: “Yes, it can be could to be on a friendly level”

    Read “Yes, it can be good to be on a friendly level”

  • http://vijetapatel.net Vijeta

    I think what Skrud meant by “friends” is people you can talk to about stuff other than work from time to time. From the way he makes his job sound, it seems like the only time people contact him is for work-related business.

    Where I’m working now, the team regularly goes out for lunch together. After our offsite, people went drinking together and so on. They don’t have to be your good friends (people you hang out with all the time) just friendly acquaintances so that you can associate them with more than just work.

  • http://sonia.etsmtl.ca Martin Morissette

    Excellent post Skrud, I could not have found a better way to express what it is I am looking for in my carreer. Like Sebastien, I too have found such hapiness in my epxperience working on the SONIA AUV project, or any other student project for that matter. After graduating, I thought I would never again find such a challenging and engaging job experience. Luckily, it only took me little over 6 months to find the perfect job for me. This said, I think it is important to know what it is you want and not stop looking until your really find it!

    Again great post!

  • http://compscigail.blogspot.com Gail Carmichael

    Totally feel you on number five – though for me I feel I have to stay in Ottawa rather than leave it ;). I have been pursued more than once for an internship at Google, and still want to do one before my PhD is done, but it’s so hard to think of leaving even for one semester! Most people think I’m crazy… heh.

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